for damien and i, it seems we argue every day over something he either did or did not do! this morning it was over the fact that he drank a tin of cooldrink last night- around bedtime- that i bought for him to take to his gymnastics party today. he snuck it out of the fridge and out of the kitchen right under my nose! and then when i asked him about it this morning he said i only bought him one! it took me fetching the receipt out of my handbag for him to admit to having drunk it last night! aaaaaargh! infuriating! so when he left for school he was not a happy camper and just mumbled goodbye and i love you. two seconds later, literally- he was at the door- excited and smiling because he found this rhino beetle in the passage! it was like nothing had happened.