December 1st Was World AIDS Day

Did you know that? My mommy darling didn’t- wherever she spent the day on Friday she saw no banners or posters or anything to bring it to her attention. Its almost like South African companies limit their awareness campaigns to whether or not they have a lot of “uneducated employees” (and I mean that in the loosest of ways), otherwise they ignore it. Over the years, AIDS and HIV has become a topic that’s very “close to my heart” to use a cliché. Not because I know anyone who is HIV positive or has AIDS, but because it has such a huge impact on my darling Damien’s future in our beautiful country.
For a start, I have an AIDS ribbon pin that I wear often- not only once a year, and I have discussed HIV and AIDS with Damien on more than one occasion. I will also not hesitate to correct someone’s misconceptions (as gently and as simply as possible) or to get involved in a discussion on the subject if I can. In sunny South Africa, the age group most affected by HIV is the 15 to 24 year olds, and Damien is 15! And we all know how impulsive teenagers can be, let alone ADHDers! And as most of my regular readers will know, I gave Damien condoms to carry in his wallet when he was twelve- just in case you know- I’d rather he was at least careful if he gave in to temptation at all.
At my previous employer, HIV education was a huge project and I had an HIV test every year- even if I wasn’t dating anyone at the time, and now I’ve been single for almost 6 years. I was also sent on several courses and seminars in order to be able to promote awareness in the men who worked in my warehouse (for the most part I was the only woman in middle management in my department).
This kind of website is exactly why South Africa is in so much trouble when it comes to HIV/AIDS, and the government insists its education and awareness campaigns are working properly despite the fact that the HIV infection rate AND the cases of teenage pregnancy continue to escalate, which tells me that teenagers especially are completely disbelieving when it comes to HIV/AIDS! It just absolutely baffles me how our government can be so bloody complacent!
Anyhoo, I’ve lost count of the number of HIV tests I’ve had, and this last December’s HIV awareness day was the first time I didn’t have an HIV test. And the funny thing is- even if I’m sure I’m negative- I still get very nervous watching that little test strip and waiting for a result! I mentioned this to Damien, and I suggested we both go and have a test done at a local clinic next week or the week after, especially since his age group is most devastatingly affected. He said yes, he’d like to. I was a wee bit surprised- I expected him to become defensive but he didn’t.
So what do you think? Would you test your teens?

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5 Responses to December 1st Was World AIDS Day

  1. Granny Glen says:

    I love how my kids educate me and keep me up to speed about life, myself and relationships. You are ALL so very dear to me and I am the most blessed mom in the world!

  2. angel says:

    joburgboy: only one… sheesh…! maybe i should worry bout how many i’ve had in 15 years!?!

    nmotb: okay- (adopt a sing-song tone of voice now) but you didn’t answer my question…

    h.e.: its still taboo in south africa no matter how much “educating” is done… and then you have “brain surgeons” (assholes) like our ex-vice president telling his 1000s of supporters that he minimised the risk of infecting himself by taking a shower immediately after sleeping with (raping?) a woman he knew to he HIV+!!!!!

  3. Homo Escapeons says:

    Africa is synonymous with HIV isn’t it. I had my little banner up the other day because it is starting to slide from the public here in North America.
    In 2003 nearly 14,000 Americans died from HIV..
    I don’t know how many Canadians but except for homicides (they had nearly 18,000!) we almost always shadow the US by 1/10th.
    In the same year
    66 died from bees,
    594 fell out of bed,
    45,ooo died in auto collisions,
    1 from measles,
    22 skydiving, and
    264 from West Nile..
    if it wasn’t for a few supporters in Hollywood HIV would slide off of the radar.

  4. Anonymous says:

    hi angel, that was an interesting post!

  5. Tom Cat says:

    eish.. must go get a test soon. have only been for one in my lifetime. naughty me.

    hopefully with government adopting a new policy on HIV, we’ll start to see a great deal more action from across the board, and not just certain companies giving out free aids ribbons.

    HIV has to constantly be on the back of our minds at all times, so much so that in the heat of the moment one doesn’t lose sight of what could possibly happen if you don’t wrap up.

    so good on you for educating Damien and being open about it. it is, as you say, SOOOOO important.