I Miss You, My Daddy Darling

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August 7th 2016 was the 46th anniversary of my mommy and daddy darling “going steady”. It was also the day my daddy darling died.

My dad was “Uncle Duck” to many, many people, a larger than life personality who made friends wherever he was, drawing you in to his space and making you laugh. Able to discuss almost any subject, my dad’s general knowledge was vast, yet you never felt like he was trying to lecture you.
If you’ve ever been to a wedding with my dad in attendance, you would have found yourself being fed peach schnapps on the dance floor, and you couldn’t say no!
And he was a prankster too!
My BBF and I spent weekends and school holidays in each other’s homes, and one weekend we were riding bikes when Gen took a tumble, grazing her knee badly on the gravel. We limped home, and she sat in the bath as we rinsed stones and grit from the cuts on her knee. Then my dad appeared, full of concern, with a tin of mercurochrome spray. He gently patted Gen’s injuries dry, spritzing a little of the spray on her knee as he worked, and then before she could blink he sprayed a bright orange-red stripe of mercurochrome from her knee to her ankle! She went to school like that for a week before it finally washed off properly!

My dad’s family was his treasure. He loved nothing more than spending time with all of us together, and any occasion was a reason to get together. I have treasured childhood memories of me and my sister B as little girls, gallivanting to the movies with my dad, just us three, watching The Fox and the Hound and Bambi on the big screen. He loved tradition! He dressed up as Santa to hand out Christmas presents. He went to great lengths to hide Easter eggs for his children and grandchildren to hunt in the garden. We were given bicycles for our 8th birthday, a good quality watch for our 14th birthday, and sometimes for sport – a tin of condensed milk and a box of jelly powder wrapped in newspaper, like he got as a schoolboy.
I remember one time, he and my mom caught and painstakingly painted doors and windows on a couple of garden snails, so that we little girls could “find them” in the garden and see the snails carrying their own houses!

When I was raising my knucklehead on my own, my dad was there if I needed him. No matter how hard it was for him to be a father figure for my son as well as being his grampa, he never let me down.

My daddy darling, you can be proud. My life is filled with happy, treasured memories of us.

I miss you so much.

And I will be careful, always.

About Angel

Wife, mom, cake artist, Guide Dog puppy raiser, ADHD champion, wedding planner, and tattooed cat slave.
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8 Responses to I Miss You, My Daddy Darling

  1. Julia says:

    Oh my sweet. Sending you sooooooo much love.
    xx

  2. deborah says:

    So very sorry for your loss although words can never heal the pain of loss you good memories will live on forever in your hearts BIG VIRTUAL HUGS to you and your family

  3. catjuggles says:

    My heart just aches for you Angel – what a fantastic man, father and grandfather. Lots of love
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  4. Gill says:

    Oh Angel. I am so sorry for your loss. But how blessed you are to have had such an incredible father and to have so many wonderful memories. I am sure you will treasure them always and they will bring you comfort. {{Hugs}}

  5. Cassey says:

    Angel all of the beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeg hugs for you and yours. So sorry for your loss.
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  6. Shebee says:

    Whenever I was around your dad, he always had the attention of others and they’d hang on every word. But he’d engage with others beautifully too, not just talk at them. He was a very special man and your loss is a great one.

    Thinking of you my friend xxxxx

  7. Gina says:

    What a beautiful tribute Angel. Your daddy sounds like an amazing man. I was very privileged to meet him at your wedding and Im so glad that I did. Huge huge hugs my friend!!!!

  8. Louisa says:

    Oh Angel…I am so sorry for your loss.
    Xxx
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