On Saturday- when Ydnic and I were driving to the support group meeting and back- we were chatting in the car and though I won’t go through the whoooole discussion, I will say that Ydnic and I are quite similar and I really enjoyed our chat.
She told me that before she met her husband, she made a list. She made a very specific list of what kind of man she wanted and what she thought a husband for her should be like. It got me thinking about what I want one day, if ever…
So here’s my list, in no particular order; and I did try to limit it to 20 points otherwise it starts getting a little vague.
And of course, I want “all”, but I’ll settle for “most”:
Y Tall
Y Dark
Y Well built
Y Passionate enough to handle me
Y Tattooed
Y Likes reading
Y Biker
Y Shaved head
Y Independent- in other words he no longer lives with his mother or ex wife…
Y Patient enough to handle Damien
Y Loves music
Y Likes food
Y Strong
Y Likes sci-fi and vampire movies
Y Adventurous when it comes to sex
Y Won’t look at me strangely because I like lots of sex
Y Likes traveling
Y Won’t give me flak about getting more tattoos
Y Has no problem with spending time at home alone just us two
Y Likes to go out and have fun and doesn’t think up excuses not to go out with me
Heh heh… So how shallow am I!!?! Is this a tall order or what…!?!!??
The very reason I trapped my husband when I did…..young.
That way it allowed me to raise him the way I wanted him. he he he
not on a respirator
fish: yeah baby!!!
Can I apply?
allan: thats still 85% dude… 0;-`
hc: aaaw you’re so sweet… and no worries, pictures will be forthcoming when i get inked!
After all the frogs I kissed I eventually just had 1 thing on my list… must be kind. We are always attracted to the sexy, bastard types but its the kind guys who make good husbands. I hope you get a guy with all these things…Traveling, sexy, independent, single, ambitious etc but I hope he is saved as well. I think I am gonna be the reader who the others hate so will just call myself the H.C. from now on. Can’t wait to see your tatt! (sounds a bit rude!!)
HC
cami: it makes perfect sense… and i do hope i recognise it of i find it…
As a curiosity… You should know that Mr. Kaos has not a single tattoo anywhere on his body… and probably never will. AND would never in a million years discourage me from getting as many tats as I want.
I wouldn’t have thought “Lets meet a hot composer/ former hair band drummer who has a super corporate job and falls asleep watching PBS most nights”
So know what you want… but be open to what is perfect. Does that make sense?
katy katy katy: aren’t uou lucky!?!
gremlin: heh heh
blue momma: mwaaaaaahahahahahahaaaa… you’re so sweet!
“Won’t look at me strangely because I like lots of sex”
I can’t imagine that getting a strange look. I have to hide the computer from hubby if I read you while he is home, lest he leaves me to move to South Africa! Because you know EVERYONE gets more than him.
I feel so sorry for him. He is so deprived.
And you aren’t shallow. You just know what you want!!!
LOL cat fight for Grumpy…
thats not bad. actually Grumpy fits a lot of these however he is MINE
supermom: i’ve had a LOT of time to think about it!
sweetass: i tried the short and sweet list- didn’t work!
jenty: i gotta have something… ambition will have to do!
lordwiggly: so what you waiting for- send them my way dude!
s.s.n.: i think i’m going to need it…
glugster: so where’s the list?
This is now the 4’th list in 2 weeks I’ve seen. OK. So I’ve combined all 4, higlighted the common denominators, created a weighting for each point and then created a questionaire to fill in.
Damn, I still don’t make the grade! Guess I’ll have to wait for list number 5.
Glad you didn’t list “All I want is someone to love me.”
It’s great to know who you’re seeking; good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Basically you’re looking for a mean-ass biker with a soft side? And a kinky side? And a penchant for gourmet food? Those okes are a dime a dozen.
That’s quite a list 🙂 I like your ambition though.
a biker that likes to read… good luck finding that one…whahahaha… good list angel, mine is short and sweet:
1. he must be male
2. he must find me irrisistable…
how hard can that be!
I wish *I* had made a list before I got married